28Oct/090
The Fourth Fear of Intimancy: Loss
Can't trust others? Perhaps this is your fear. Remember we all have one or more of these fears so it's just in what degree we have them, not if we have them. Once we discover what our fear(s) are that's when we start making progesss in our relationships and interact in a completey new way to the benefit of all!
Look at these traits and see if you identify with any of them. Be honest with yourself here 
- You anticipate you will lose what's important to you in the end.
- You feel too dependent on others.
- You don't want to be dependent in any way.
- You don't feel you can count on anyone.
- You have problems saying no.
Spotting our personal fears gives us a starting point from which we can work to lessen their influence in our lives. It's all about growth and happiness so put your energy to work here and enjoy the journey with all it's ups and downs. Trust me, it's worth it!