21Oct/090
Third Fear of Intimacy: Rejection
Along with the abondonment fear the other big one is the fear of rejection. We all experience this in one form or another, no matter what our upbringing is. Look at these signs and see where you fit 
in relationships, that is...
- You dislike too much togetherness.
- You fear physical rejection.
- You feel safe if you can hold on to someone.
- You are demanding of others.
- You think others are too emotional.
- You believe you have to conform to others' view to be lovable.
We wonder why relationships can be so difficult and looking at the fears we all bring into relationships you can see why that is true. Work on yourself and many of these will fade into the background. Yippee!