7Nov/090
Loving and Unloving
Love, as we know takes many forms, so the questions is if we really ever unlove that person. If it was a deep felt intense love it can shift into another form of emotion that pollutes the original feeling. It could be anger, bitterness, hurt , sadness or disappointment. These more negative feelings can soften over time leaving you with the memories of the good parts of the person (you were with him/her for some reason) so maybe the love got diluted, but remains in some form. The question to ask yourself here is if you feel something for that person. This doesn't mean you need to go back to that person, it's more about learning yourself which is our goal here, right?